lunes, 7 de octubre de 2013
Freedom
Freedom , we all want to be free right? We long to be free ... of any of the types of government , freedom of expression, feeling ... No kind of freedom is beyond our reach.
But what is freedom?
For some people , freedom , is painting a picture, writing a novel or running without looking back ...
We have created a very focused concept of meaning.
When we hear the word freedom , think independently , and it is true .
According to a summary collection dictionaries : freedom is :
The situation , circumstances or conditions who is not a slave , nor subject , nor prevented the desire of others in a coercive manner . In other words , that which allows humans to decide whether to do something or not ( free will) , it becomes free, but also accountable .
As seen here , to be free is not necessary to the concept , ( symbolically ) " Chains " or " restriction " that prevent the action to take .
But we must not confuse some kinds of freedom , for example teenagers tend to confuse freedom with independence and discipline with abuse, and this should not be the case ( or not fully ) .
When we are young it is necessary that the child understands that what he did is not good and should not do it anymore, just with a " NO" enough. This action is only useful discipline in children , because they do not understand in the same way that a teenager , a teenager is not satisfied with a " NO" and not as some parents say "Because I said so" teenagers are rebels , need reasons not to do something. What I mean is that some are not satisfied with the reasons (if parents give them ) not restricted to such action .
Do not forget that parents are in charge , but they need not be exceeded authority.
By example : Locking up a guy or girl in your room too , that is not tolerable (the problem is that there are always people like that , if not worse ) , and the failure to speak is a childish act , it would be understandable in children , but not people who should be experienced and assumed maturity .
But we all make mistakes , but a bad act committed more than twice and not a bug ( I think so ) .
Teens should know that discipline is for their own good , or should be, and parents need to be flexible and understanding with their children.
If possible so humble , no yelling or fighting , that just complicates things and makes the guy want more independence in a way erroneous .
Independence, not only is the concept of freedom to act , independence is the act of acting as the consequences , and if possible a logical humble and insightful.
We shout startled and independence by not having what you want, that's childish .
Let's be logical and strategic , but without hurting anyone (physically or psychologically ).
If these rules are met the boy may be more independent in terms of freedom of expression and emotional communication, and then the rest of the other types of independence.
This text is not necessarily to teach how to act , although it could be a tip. This paper is to discuss the discipline , independence and freedom can be confused if not looking for in-depth the real meaning.
I hope to share with me your opinions.
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